Tuesday 14 October 2014

Lil Joy and Daddy

She cannot make real conversations with us yet but with the limited vocabulary she has, she makes sure we know what she wants.

All these happens last night when I was still working in the evening, daddy has some time with lil J and he kept coming into the room and report event 1 and 2 at regular intervals.

Event 1

Lil Joy: *pointed at daddy's face*
Dad: huh?
Lil Joy: *went to the table and grab a bunch of tissue and give to dad*
Dad: *puzzled*
Lil Joy: *use the tissue, wipe her face and point at daddy's face again*
Dad: *realised that she wants dad to wipe away the sweat on his face*

My take on this: Aw... so sweet of her.. must have seen me doing that dad before :P


Event 2

Helper came out
Lil Joy: *use both hands to pull daddy's hands up*
Dad: huh?
Lil Joy: UP
Daddy realised she wants her to go because she prefers to play with helper instead of him..

My take on this: Daddy need to spend more playtime with his girl.


Event 3

Before sleep family time, the three of us are lying on the bed doing our quiet things aka parents reading and Lil Joy walking up and down the bed quietly.

Suddenly lil Joy went over to daddy and grab his hands, wanting to bring him somewhere. After several attempts, daddy reluctantly moved and Lil Joy bring him round the bed and make him sit beside me

Lil Joy: Scratch
Me: *bursted out in laughters*

She wants to scratch daddy's back with me.


Realisation: all the little things that we do get registered in her tiny brain. It is really important to do family things together, love one another so she remember and will make loving a daily part of her life. Sweet is the fact that my little girl is growing up, interacting and doing things with us. She was just a crying infant about 2 years ago. Kids grow fast, too fast, in fact.